In the days ahead, you may not realize what you're looking for until you find it. I advise you, therefore, to put into action the following five-point plan.

Suppress any know-it-all tendencies you might have. Revive your childhood talent for being voraciously curious about everything. Ask more questions than you've ever asked before. Figure out how to be receptive without being passive, and how you can be humble without muffling your self-confidence. Consider the possibility that you have a lot to learn about what's best for you.

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